Tired of hearing... "His grades are fine."
"Let's just try this for now...."
"He's making progress."
... when you know they're not?
Tired of getting the runaround when it comes to your child’s IEP?
What if I handed you the key to unlocking the outcome you want from your next IEP meeting?
The Don’t IEP Alone Academy is a comprehensive resource to help you better understand and use your role as a parent/advocate so
you can improve your chances of getting a "YES!" from your team!
Avoid costly, time-consuming, progress-delaying mistakes with your IEP.
So you're trying to navigate all this individualized education program stuff, huh?
I'm going to show you how to eliminate objections and resistance in the IEP process.
Because if I can get to yes for my child... Help others get to yes for their children...
Then I can help YOU get to 'yes' too.
But first, picture this -
The IEP meeting had just ended.
“That went pretty well,” you confidently say to yourself, walking towards the school parking lot.
There was a thorough discussion of the ins and outs of your child's disability…
A roundtable conversation about academic modifications, appropriate breaks, and redirects…
Schedule changes were discussed and observed…
You spoke up and voiced your concerns, opinions, and recommendations to the staff and they seemed to be attentive to your needs.
That is... until you received a copy of the new IEP a few days later.
As you sat back and read over the new document you couldn’t believe your eyes.
Absolutely NOTHING (... and I mean nothing) you agreed to was on the IEP.
> No modifications to tests and homework (which you specifically asked for)
> No language regarding sensory breaks (which you strongly advocated for)
> Nothing regarding changes to your child's schedule (which you directly requested)
"That's it!" you burst out in anger, "I'm going down to the school again and discussing this with the staff."
Desperate for answers, you whip out your child's IEP and tell him to take another look. And instead of engaging with you further he says, “I’m going to need to speak with my other supervisor after her meeting to see what’s going on.”
* buries face in hands *
All you want is for your child to get the services they need, get the education they deserve, and create a safe environment for them and the rest of the classroom.
With the lack of changes… despite speaking up.
The bullying and anxiety your child experiences… despite voicing your concerns.
And the school's lack of refusal to do... well, anything.
You begin to wonder if all of the fight is even worth it and seriously begin to contemplate pulling them from the system altogether and homeschooling.
You see other parents at local get-togethers and inside Facebook groups get the accommodations they need for their child.
But you're still stuck and frustrated wondering...
How can I get my team to listen to me - and what separates a yes from a no?
"We got everything we wanted and what my son was entitled to, and didn’t ruffle any feathers of the IEP team while doing it. "
I took your class last year and I have a 4-year-old with autism in pre-k in TN. We were so worried about his IEP last week, fighting for him to stay on a modified schedule in order to receive outside therapies, which the school wasn’t allowing without it being an unexcused absence.
I rewatched so many of your lectures and I had my little lighthouse in mind and all my data and I was just so prepared.
We got everything we wanted, and what my son was entitled to, and didn’t ruffle any feathers of the IEP team while doing it. I have a whole life of advocating for my son ahead of me and I know how important this is. I thought it might be nice for you to know that your “Don’t IEP alone” program is exactly that. I felt like you were helping me the whole way, so I wasn’t doing it alone. I hope you realize the huge difference you are making for so many families and the lives of our children by teaching us these skills!
— Kaleigh B
Speaking up for your child at these meetings is just one very small part of the entire process.
To get the results you want AND the outcome your child deserves, you need:
One part strategy
+
One part paper trail
... and how exactly do I know?
It's my life's mission to give parents/advocates like you the resources you need to make a more informed decision regarding their child with disabilities and their IEP.
I'm took everything I've learned from 15 years and 100s of IEP meetings--and chunked it down into what you need to know.
Imagine having...
A starting point and a guide to get exactly where you need to be - fast.
A lifetime of professional skills, training, support, and guidance for navigating the local school system and national laws.
Includes weekly live Q&A with Advocates and Attorneys.
If you’re ready to stop feeling over your head or hearing "no" all.of.the.time (despite speaking up and attending meetings)
- AND -
You're ready to go beyond what basic websites and blogs teach you and truly navigate the IEP process... then I personally invite you to join me and hundreds of other parents inside the:
Don't IEP Alone Academy
Powerful tools and deep-dive content to help you better understand and utilize your role as a parent/advocate so that you have an improved chance of moving your IEP team to "Yes!"
Created for parents, caregivers, and professional advocates.
Includes Lifetime Membership + Live Q&A Chats with Advocates and Attorneys
How much would that cost you?
Some of What is Included for $297
Total Value: Priceless!
How much does a few hours with an attorney or advocate cost?
And will that last a LIFETIME?
Today's Price = $297; Will Be $497 next time.
Over the past 15 years, I have attended hundreds of IEP and 504 meetings and manifestation hearings. With all kinds of kids and parents and school teams.
And what I've learned is this: Our kids may be very different from each other. But IDEA and the IEP process never change. It is the same process for every child.
This exclusive academy contains the exact framework, resources, and tools that I use with my paying clients -- and now, I'm making them available to all parents.
Best of all, when you follow the prescribed IEP process (per IDEA) and have solid documentation, IEP meetings are nothing more than an annual formality.
I want to provide you with comprehensive lessons to expertly guide and provide new ideas to use in your own advocacy. Plus, the camaraderie of LIVE virtual chats and private conversations to keep you encouraged, motivated and informed so you're never left questioning or alone in the process.
Complete the pre-recorded Academy sessions at your own pace and bring all your questions to the live Q&A sessions!
"I thought I was really good after IEPing for 10 years, but you opened up my understanding in ways I didn't even think possible."
"You have a unique ability to explain things in a language that I can understand!"
A no-holds-barred approach to IEP that you've always wanted!
I'll help you MASTER the IEP PROCESS so that In just a few weeks, you can develop the skills and systems that will take you from stressed and overwhelmed by IEPs to calm and in control.
For both parent advocates and professional advocates (or those who wish to be!)
Sure, other websites offer IEP training.
But, not many of them are created by someone who is both a parent and an advocate. And a former teacher.
The school staff or clinicians put most resources together, not parents or advocates.
With this IEP Academy, you don't just get a bunch of hard-to-understand, dry, and impersonal information (boring!)
You get me teaching you everything I know (think: parent-to-parent) -- PLUS a live community where you can find support and answers to your most pressing questions and learn how to get to a "YES!" faster.
Plus, the best and most helpful IEP advice you'll find online; literally thousands of satisfied families depend on it.
I've been saying I would increase the price for over a year. When enrollment opens again in January, it will be $99 more to cover my increased costs.
It's my complete academy of IEP resources. Get lifetime access as it is updated about every 18 months, based on input from parents like you!
Are you worried about your child's progress, or even IEP regression? The IEP Academy includes companion PDFs for you to use to track IEP goals and do your own progress monitoring.
Nervous about IEP meetings? Feel like you're speaking up, but not being heard? End that--follow my tools and documents and use language that your IEP team will respond to!
The way you explain the lessons are very understandable. Prior, I had no experience with IEPs or 504 plans so it was a foreign language to me. Within 3 weeks I was able to draft up my parent concerns and for the first time the school took me seriously. I was no longer that parent that verbally requested my concerns but now I know to keep track of everything, only send emails or concerns in writing. I am still learning everyday and I know if I am unsure about a particular subject I can refer back to the academy. I enjoy the new content being added and have even considered helping to advocate for other children. Thank you for taking pride in what you do and helping other struggling parents sort through this process. We are forever grateful!
— Tracey B.
Finally!
A tool that helps provide a clear path to "YES!"
When you purchase the Don't IEP Alone Academy, you will have instant access to all the tools you need to master the process AND better your chances of getting a "YES!" from your IEP team. My proven process provides a step-by-step plan for how to address the IEP team in a manner they cannot ignore. And, you'll never wonder what your next step should be.
IEP Welcome and Introduction
I'll get you off on the right foot and give a 30-thousand foot overview of everything you'll be discovering inside the program during the welcome video - to include an overview of my 4-Step process and what to expect from the course.
Documentation & Papertrail, Record Review
Let's dig in! Session 1 starts with all things data and documentation. We'll discuss why records and paperwork is SO important, what constitutes a student record, how to do a record review, and learn about relevant laws. Plus, a video tutorial with further explanation on gathering data and creating your all-important papertrail.
Breaking up that "Gut Feeling" with Data
Discover how your record review tells a story and understand needs versus documented needs (yes, there's an important difference). Plus, learn to clearly define what you're going to ask for using my six step "if-then" scenarios and how to look at your lighthouse of due process and graduation outcomes.
Communication
You've defined it, now it's time to ask for it. Discover how to put all of your data and concerns into communication. We'll discuss the "Parent Concerns Letter", go over the length of the letter, what to put inside, and how to frame it to get results and move the needle forward quickly.
Action
We'll go over all of the possible actions you can take based on the school's response to your official written ask. How to not delay any additional evaluations, and what to do AFTER the IEP meeting. Also, discover what are the procedural differences between a full new IEP vs. changes and revisions.
This is not an e-book. This is an online training course, made up of dozens of videos and printable PDFs to accompany the modules. Make every section work for you to better advocate for your child - PLUS receive access to live Q&A sessions hosted by me virtually on Zoom.
Rest assured - No matter your IEP concern, you can run it through the 4-step process included in this resource and develop a concrete strategy to guide your way forward strategically. And if you run into issues or questions, I'm here to answer them during the question-and-answer timeframe.
Maybe you’ve been an advocate for some time and want an actual roadmap for each student you help. This is a fantastic resource to do that!
Well, is this you?
Here's the thing. Over 15 years of advocacy, this is what I've learned. Most parents "don't know what they don't know," as the saying goes. They think they are good advocates, and that their team is just extraordinarily difficult. But the truth is that most parents don't know how to use the IEP process to their advantage.
And this is what that looks like:
→ Your child isn’t making progress in school as he or she should (or maybe you don’t even know what “progress” really looks like). It’s like feeling your way through the dark.
→ You don’t know how to interpret the data (or make it work FOR you). You feel forced to agree that their interpretation of the data is correct, even though your gut tells you otherwise because you don't know how to compile data that shows no progress or regression.
→ You know your child is struggling and is behind their peers. Or they can’t read. Your gut tells you that something needs to be done, but you're constantly prevented from making meaningful changes to the IEP.
Don't IEP Alone (because you don't have to!)
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My trademarked 4-step process to tackling IEPs will be a game-changer.
There comes a time in every IEP parent’s life when he has to stand up and say, “enough is enough.” And that’s the day when you decide to change your child's education experience for the better by digging in and being the best IEP advocate you can be.
I know what it’s like.
When Kevin was a baby, I spent a lot of time just thinking about it.
I purchased a lot of books on the topic. I even attended school district training sessions.
Problem was...
I didn't know what I didn't know. Oh sure, all the IEP manuals and guides stacking up on my bookshelf and hard drive made it look like I was serious. All the charges on my Visa bill made me look pretty serious.
The problem is, I thought I was taking action.
I dabbled.
I did things like stepping out of my comfort zone and speaking up at meetings.
And I would email my team, assuming they would follow through. Yet I never got serious enough about it to really understand my rights and the IEP process defined by IDEA.
But then something happened that rocked me to my very core. And maybe you can relate to this…
One day it seemed like everything was fine. I was just going through life with two toddlers. Then suddenly, I was knee-deep in the Kindergarten Transition process. (and Kevin had just turned 4!)
I can’t even begin to tell you how those meetings shocked me.
It really was the proverbial wake up call when the LEA said "We appreciate your input Mrs. Lightner, but we will not be making any changes to this IEP today."
Because suddenly I realized I had to get better IEP meeting results or Kevin was going to end up in a placement that I loathed... and one that was really inappropriate for him.
You can bet I got serious really quick.
I stopped messing around. I stopped dabbling.
And I started learning my parental rights and how to leverage the IEP process in my favor.
It wasn’t always easy.
I quickly found out the learning curve is steep when you’re trying to learn about IEPs.
But I did it. In just about a year, I went from completely stressing about what his placement would be to a desirable placement. And, that was kindergarten -- he's in 12th grade now and still in the same placement.
-Lisa
"... the school acknowledged the missing elements and put a lot of them in place."
Skills. Systems. Support.
My Don't IEP Academy will provide confidence and keep you feeling empowered. It will serve you faithfully over the years and has a proven track record of success.
TRUE STORY from my friend and neighbor, Anne: "I have listened to Lisa's talks and used her advice for years. Last year, I did specifically what she said, followed her letter templates, and sent it to my IEP team. I swear, they all sat up straighter in their chairs! They knew I meant business and my daughter's IEP got the needed changes."
"I was brand new to the whole IEP process. I had absolutely no idea where to begin. Being able to have all my daughter's educational paperwork all together in a binder is such a lifesaver! "
"Your product helped me in many ways but to be honest, the biggest role it played in me helping my son was that I didn’t know ANYTHING about IEPs at the time. Therefore, I didn’t know anything was required, that I had rights and that I played a key role in the process. Because of the organizer (and the questions it helped me generate), I went from being a mom whose son never even had an IEP to a mom whose son was approved for a nonpublic school that can meet his needs. I went from being a total rookie to an all star."
The Don't IEP Alone Academy was first developed in 2020 by me, a Special Education Advocate, former teacher and IEP Parent.
Since then, it has gone through several revisions, each time with a focus group of parents like you. I want to make the IEP Process easier for you and take you from being stressed and overwhelmed to calm and in control.
If you are an IEP parent, this is an opportunity that I promise you will not want to miss.
Would it be worth this investment if you had a clear action plan that helps you feel more organized and in control of your IEP process?
If you said ‘yes,’ enroll in Don't IEP Alone Academy today.
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